Wednesday, May 19, 2010

P.I.C. #3 Heidi

My PIC's! Where to begin...They are my girls though they may be far away or a little distant at times they will always be there. We met under the oddest circumstances but became the best of friends. Last but not Least Heidi...she was our honorary P.I.C. we accepted her to our click well because she just fit....She was the 3rd roommates gf/baby momma....The first of the 3 boys to get preggo. Funny thing is...I remember meeting her through my tangled web of friends back in high school...YEP I said high school. She was on the cheerleading team with Christi...my long time bestie of 8 years. Freshman year of college she met C.T. I didn't know until 2 years later...that she was preggo with his son....I wasn't exactly her friend either. I was C.T.'s girlfriend at the time friend, Mandy. That lasted about a year and after she had Chi, we started becoming friends. Those were some crazy times because I was roommates with Mandy....it was a twisted little group....almost crazy enough to have a reality show....LITERALLY! And it all circled around the 3 stooges....It was nothing but DRAMA.....But I felt for her, and helped take care of Chi....he was so precious, and all she wanted was a family, and for him to have a father to help raise him right. This little boy deserved some kind of stability, and was going get that no matter what. So one night the 3 of us decided to go out and bring Miss Heidi along because she needed a break...and trust me we did too!...That night we went to the club LOL we were the only people there hahahah it was LAME...but it was FREE to get, to drink, ALL night...we had an absolute blast....LOL and even joked about the day we would be taking shots to our bachelorette parties!! Well a long 2 years went by, we laughed, had drama, watched Chi grow, and grew a bond together, and That came true! Heidi had met the guy she was going marry...Oddly enough he used to be one of my security guys at the club Hurricanes I worked at when I was 19....LOL small world. I was so happy to hear the news. I felt she was blessed with a man who was willing to raise Chi as his son and love him like he was his own. The bachelorette party was so much fun, and helping her plan the wedding was too! It was a small intimate wedding, but was so beautiful...She was a gorgeous bride. We have been a lot closer lately than ever. I've been fortunate to watch Chi grow...he will be turning 5 at the end of this month and he is so talented. Just 2 months ago Heidi gave birth to her newborn baby boy with her wonderful husband. They are so strong and can get through anything I have high hopes for them, and believe they will see it to the end. I am blessed to have her and watch her lil boys grow they are so handsome and she is a wonderful mother. Keep it trucking Heidi you will catch your break one day ;) Love you dear! SO that leaves just me! The ONE and ONLY of the 3 stooge's Girlfriends to not get preggo....thank goodness! I'm definitely there for my girls tho!

.:XOXO TMarie:.

P.I.C. #2 Alys :)

My PIC's! Where to begin...They are my girls though they may be far away or a little distant at times they will always be there. We met under the oddest circumstances but became the best of friends.
LOL she has been waiting for this!!!! My other P.I.C.
Oh Alys how do I LOVE thee...Let me count the ways!!!! We met through boys... J.J. and K.B. yes the both of us were dating these two idiots at the time we became friends. So people would question given our early betrayal to each other how did we become friends. WEll people that's JUST it! We had a minor stupidity ourselves not realizing what we had found in each other until years later....that it was definitely Hoes over Bros in later date and time...But to begin...Alys was bestfriends with the girl that my ex J.J. dated before me. So she kinda owed her loyalty to her, UNTIL...she realized what a cool person I was! LOL We spent night after night hiding and protecting secrets that our boyfriends made us keep, if we wanted anything to do with them. I despise them for that reason! It wasn't fair. I'm sure we both agree that we heard fight after fight through the hallway of the boy's townhouse, because they were roommates we new their darkest secrets...but little did we know of the person we were in a relationship with. So on one of those nights when we were left behind for a "guys night" we decided to hangout and have martinis at my place and go out in the 'boro together! This was the night we bonded...I believe she became my P.I.C that night! As time went on we grew closer and more knowledgeable of the boy's actions. We have spent NYE after NYE together and I even took her out for her graduation. We had our girly Monday nights to watch the Hills and I would cook dinner the last summer she was in the 'boro, and on one of those girly nights she came to me with a secret I vowed to keep until she wanted people to know....and it was her precious babygirl K! Yes I went with her to her first ultrasound, and stood by her when she had no one else.....It was amazing to see her mature to a momma and watch her grow wisdom to the fact that those boys were nothing but trouble and she needed to get out, and get out fast! When she left I was so sad, I missed her laugh and the way we complained about the guys and how we were obsessed with fashion. Once she was gone it was like my whole world changed. I didn't have that kind of bond with anyone else, So I couldn't take it anymore...our birthdays were only 6 days apart and I hadn't seen her in a long time so I took a trip to Kingsport to visit for her birthday :) and her lil miss....It was a great weekend I couldn't have had it any other way...since lil K has been older we have went back to our NYE tradition, and I hope that we have many more to spend together....she is my long distance closest friend and will always be my P.I.C. :) I loveeeee you Alys!!!!

.:XOXO TMarie:.